Need another opinion, is my W OM, friend or more?

[andyv]

Thanks CL, really good advice.

I am going to start putting in place things to make her realise that although we are separated and living in diff rooms, that she is on her own now.

I will still cover all our family's living expenses, etc, but will now give her an allowance to manage herself (for entertainment, clothes etc). Rather than giving her a constant stream of funds to splurge.

I have been an easy target in regards to buying what she want's, full time babysitter for our D, running errands for her etc, just to make a good impression.

I will stop all this and just do what is required by myself as a separated partner in regards to the wellbeing of the whole family, not just her.

Andyv