I found out last night talking to her cousin (not prying, just a pleasant chat), that this OM is not interested in having a relationship with my W, but loves her as a friend. He has a similar relationship with a few other Females.
I suppose this counts for something, if it is true.
Also she was suppose to sleep over her friends place last night, after a night out. I woke up this morning and saw her car in our driveway. She is still sleeping now. I feel so much better today.
I shall keep doing the steps and working on myself like you said, thanks for your advice.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
