Your H sounds like a user, and is a lazy, fairweather dad. He probably thinks you and the OW are too stupid to figure him out ... well, don't know about OW, but you clearly have him down pat. But, as you said, not your problem anymore.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim