Right there with you guys. It has been 5 months for me since H dropped the PA bomb and I kicked him out.
This is such a nightmare. The killer is the waiting and the knowing that it may not ever get better with H.
Hannah, the things that help me are: 1) nothing you do will help H right now, it is all up to him. 2) God has a plan for us and he knows best 3) you would not want a real relationship with H right now because he is not capable of it. If there is an OW, they have no REAL relationship. It is based on using each other - that is it. 3) H will reap what he sows. 4) Most MLC's wake up eventually. 5) They still love us underneath all their emotional baggage.
Me: 45 H: 43 Married: 19 years Dated 05 years Bomb: 11/06 OW - "I love her, but still want you as my friend"
