Where is the line between sacrifice and compromise though? That will depend on the individuals in the R/M

I believe that one day the ML will come back into our M but I can just about guarantee it will still not be at the level I would like (maybe if I am really lucky 6-8 times a year, right now it is "0" times a year, so that would definitely be an improvement)

However, if I had to "sacrifice" the sex portion of our M totally for the rest of my life, in exchange for being happy and together, I am willing to accept that too. After all, there will come a time in everyone's life that sex will go to the wayside, and then what? I guess it all depends on how much your "desire" is going to overrule your committment to your M

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)