Well its been a week now since H said he was gonna call the real estate guy. I havent heard another thing about it. I dont know if he is just forgetting about it or he really doesnt want to. He is used to me being a snivelling crying begging pleading person, but he has gotten very little of that since the split and Im not sure how he is dealing with that. I have been very strong and over the last week very distant but friendly. I hope this passes soon and we can try to forget the past and look forward to a happy future together. Something tells me deep doen inside though that that likely wont happen. But I am trying not to dwell on that. Heather