IT'S HAPPENING ALL OVER AGAIN!!!!!!!!

[Heywyre]

I can't believe the MC and C won't allow you to talk to them, or each other. That's seems rather narrow-minded to me.

The next thing I would do then is talk to your GP and pass the name of her C onto him/her. Perhaps they can make a professional call with your concerns. I am guessing the C doesn't have a clue about what your W has done or is doing. Wouldn't they want to know how unstable a patient they had?

I feel for you RGM, you are in a really bad spot. There is a saying I try to live by (not that I adhered to it when I got involved in my own sitch - but it does have its merits) and its "the trouble with getting involved with people that have problems is their problems become yours" - how true that is, particularly in your sitch. You are between a rock and a hard place and its a BIG rock

I wish there was something else I could suggest but I am out of suggestions. She has made everyone believe that it is YOU that is the problem (typical of people that have major problems- my H did it too).

When H and I got together, he told me of how he cared so much about his previous wife abd/or gf's, how they took advantage of his thoughtfulness etc. and how he was just trying to help them blah blah blah and how they were the ones that were screwed up.

I don't deny some of them were screwed up but my H wasn't exactly prize material either so it definitely wasn't one sided, it never is. But, as much as you are not perfect, your W's distortion of reality is a real concern and she has everyone around her convinced of it too - how sad