Its over again with exW

[Cinderellaman]

Hi ddc...

I've never posted to you and don't know much about your sitch...but this are my thoughts...

Hereb is what I am going to tell her
"exW I respect your wish for us to be friends right now and I agree 100%. I just want you to have a good time tonight without any pressure and whatever happens happens. If you feel I am crossing your boundry please tell me and I will stop"

I think that this in itself is adding pressure...being a woman I sensed some pressure here...saying you want to be friends 'right now'....(so more later..) and whatever happens happens (it's as if you are assuming something might allready happen..)
I think it would be best to just go out with her and DO all the things you wrote....don't write them...DO them...she will feel that MUCH MORE !!!

I hope it works ...it was just MHO...