I'm surprised her injury was such a big deal to her. It was her job, I presume, that said she could not work there? If so, why didn't she get some sort of short term insurance or disability? Regardless, she could have done something with 6 months....my son broke and dislocated his wrist at Christmas, has had two surgeries for nerve damage, wears a weird "robot" thing on his hand and is in his junior year of college. Point being, his life is going on. He may never get more than 50% functioning but would not or at least so far has not, fallen into a deep depression. I think your gf has some dep issues that flared up and would have come regardless of what her injury or job status was. Frankly, she sounds unstable right now and in a way you could look at it as a MLCer b/c she's having some type of "episode". Has she done this at all, before? Think hard about whether you can deal with this for a life time IF it is a physiological or cyclical problem.
Also, you referred to things you'd do differently now. Like what? Can you see how, or if, you contributed to the situation deteriorating? You either are in denial about your role (and it is notable that you point to reasons having nothing to do with you, for her leaving) OR she really has no reason to leave, and that means, you are dealing with someone who is unpredicatable, leaves R's without good reason or explanation, etc. Or some combination of these. What do you think? What problems were INSIDE the R? Any? If not, if you really have dug deep and cannot think of problems within the R, then she'll come back to you unless she's wacky. Thoughts? J-
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