????????? You feel lost, sad and unable to sleep ?????????
FOR moving office furniture, from the office, to your home that you live in, but is still owned by your husband and you jointly -the time being...they are material things - a desk, chair, files, papers, office products...these things have no feelings. You are having them moved from point A to point B...you aren't going to throw them out...they don't represent your marriage...they are pieces of your job...that's all...just furniture.
You are NOT:
1. asking for a divorce 2. telling your husband you don't love him 3. leaving him 4. showing him you aren't honoring your vows 5. failing 6. giving up 7. loosing anything 8. lost 9. sad
You ARE:
1. moving an office...only 2. going to be able to work 3. going to be able to concentrate 4. getting out of the source of your pain...your husband 5. going to get back your personal power 6. going to accomplish much more 7. going to feel empowered 8. going to feel better...less stressed, more focused - like a weight has been lifted
It would be fun to rearrange the house...put the desk on an angle or add potted plants...hang motivational pictures...this is your office...all yours...
Tam, sweetie,...this is your emotional rescue...from all of your pain...this will let you gain control...the pain will subside...
Splurge...buy a new fax...fax him papers, info. he needs...it will save you gas...buy yourself a new outfit...eat a lobster... reward yourself for making the decision to save your marriage... by moving the office home...you will soon see the results....
