Pity your W can't realise that as a child she didn't turn out to be that resilient (otherwise, she wouldn't be harbouring all these feelings about her father and brothers), so how does she think her own children are going to feel about her once they are grown up. Are they going to be resenting her for being an absent mother?
RGM, I truly hope she wakes up soon, and understands that it's time to grow up, and leave the past where it belongs, but also learn from it, and try not to repeat it in the future. She must stop defining the one's who love her now, based on what other's did to her in the past, before she can really grow, and find value in herself, job or no job.
I got one of those spam messages the other day from my niece. I rarely read them, but this one stood out. Maybe y'all have seen it already, but it bears repeating. I will post it separately, below.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim