Brue my thoughts will be with you tonight--sending you all kinds of self confidence vibes.
Tonight you are feeling him out. NO final decisions need to be made and most of all, do not go at this from a place of fear. YOu are the one in control and so there is no need for fear. All too often we allow our fears to take front stage in our dealings with people and it leads us right smack dab into the lions den. Tonight, speak to H from a place of love and strength. YOu are okay on your own and don't NEED him to come home and what could be more powerful than that? You are amazing and it is so awesome that you are at this place.
I also agree that you should have your boundaries and be clear and rational about it without being demanding. We should never want them back so badly that we would be willing to sacrifice our standards and ethics.
Love, Althea
p.s. I want JEFF CORWIN AS MY NEXT HUSBAND!!!! (I know, that was totally out of left field, but he is SO my type!).
