W at Home, Yet Sleeps Elsewhere

[BeingMe]

The author states that one problem is the WAS believes that he/she isn't receiving enough from the M, but the problem is that they ARE NOT GIVING ENOUGH TO THE M. They simply want the M to make them happy. How's that for "food for thought?"

This used to be my attitude, but no longer. I always thought that if it was meant to be, then things would work out, and we would be happy. Never realising that you have to put something into the bank, in order to draw from it.

I admire your careful consideration of each step you take. It takes courage, persistence, patience, and insight, especially considering that she is sleeping elsewhere, and does not acknowledge you in a social setting. I'm afraid I would've lost it a long time ago. Keep up the good work.