RCR- yes OW needs to be saved, mostly from herself. I can't beleive someone can go through life and make sooooooo many bad mistakes. She seems to drift from one unavailable man to the next. Best I can tell, is that she has broken up more than one marriage, only to be alone again. You would think these people would learn from their mistakes.
Mermaid- We sure have been at this a long time.
Life is good, no it is actually great. My new house is so wonderful. It is so nice to have gotten out of that big house with all the bad memories.
I am so busy this time of year, with work, reffing, and coaching that I barely have time to sit down. H calls several times a day and sometimes I am just too busy to pick up.
OW's most recent contact was cyclical with her patterns......I got so fed up I just told H that it was time for D. He panicked, and finally after 4 years decided to change his cell phone!! It is her lifeline to him...... To my knowledge she no longer knows where he works, and his mother had forbidden her to call, so the cell was the mode of communication...
He spent Easter with us, lots of familya activities, and is constantly talking about "us", "our", "we"......
I'm still closely guarded and still do my own thing...
We are bracing here for a big storm (so much for spring)....
