We actually did have a convo last night about ML -- He actually started it and asked me if I could feel it when he "O'd." I said "no." I guess I've never asked this question of anyone -- you aren't supposed to "feel" it are you?

Anyway, I asked him if it was different now that I've had 3 children - if it felt different. He paused for awhile & said no, so I'm not sure if that was a truthful answer.

I asked him if he thought it was taking him longer to "O" b/c of the AD or just b/c we are ML more often & he said b/c of us ML more often.

He was pleased b/c I had bought some more lingerie last night when I went to the store and surprised him.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10