I swear to God I will go to MY doctor and get xanax to take MYSELF if I have to read that you asked your h for yet another hug....And HS--where are you?? Find something for Tam to take that will make her mouth NOT ask him anything about the M, let alone analyze it or repeat it, over and over and over...OMG!! The asking for hugs--really hits me hard b/c of my beautiful but pathetic sister's behavior-(buttons pushed, lights flashing, alarms ringing)--RE-read my sister's story b/c she constantly asked her H about the status of their M until she shoved him right out the door into OW's arms, and she asked for hugs and did that EXACT thing and I saw her stbxh's face as he "hugged" her, and he could not wait to flee... she preferred the momentary "comfort" of a hug begrudgingly given, to having self respect, and actually an increased chance of long term M success...
....okay, now I feel a little better. Did I, by chance, make my point Tam? Somehow, some way, you have to just do this, okay? j-
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
