I know everybody is going to tell me to be patient. I know I know...
My wife has been telling me that I just need to move on and try to have a happy and fulfilled life - without her of course. How can my life be fulfilled when my girls are taken from me. How can my life be fulfilled when the one I am bonded with is nolonger with me.
Matt. 19
19:3 Then some Pharisees came to him in order to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful to divorce a wife for any cause?” 19:4 He answered, “Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator made them male and female, 19:5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and will be united with his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? 19:6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
I just recieved an Email from my W telling me that she is fine and that she is finally finding out who she is and that she has compromised for years with our relationship. Spiritually she is beyond ok.... She is drained trying to share with me her soul. She will nolonger fake intimacy with me....
On a positive note she did say that she would go to counseling with me to work on our communication for our girls sake. But the goal is to not work on us, but, it is so we can handle each other in a mutual situation. This way the girls do not see mom and dad being disrespectfull to each other.
Here is another lovely quote from my W.
"i am tired of the shell and i know i can not go back into that cocoon. part of me has begun to feel passion, intense emotions and feelings that i did not think i was capable of ever experiencing, however while finding myself and beginning to realize that i need to pursue the things that are within me this has only begun to surface even more."
I am going to keep DBing but my marraige feels doomed and hopeless. sIs thi reaction normal from a WAS?
I do not know anymore... I know that I am loved, currently not by my W, but loved by God and everyone else that he has put in my life.
