No, I am not going to make him choose right now, because I know at this point, he would choose her.
Yes, and that is how he lost his job, too... listening to OW instead of me! I feel he could get into more trouble... he never learns... I tell him straight out she is TROUBLE, I did from day 1. She has got him so wrapped around her finger it isn't even funny! I watch this and it is almost unbelievable to me the stupidity he shows when I used to think he was such a smart man, I think he is not so smart anymore. I don't like to talk about my own H this way, but I am losing respect for him fast... at least the little I had left, anyways.
I talked to a friend who has a brother that is a policeman and he said that I could put a restraining on her if I feel harrassed or threatened by her. They may or may not let me because I really have no proof that she is doing all this, but at least there will be something on paper that I am having a problem with her.
This could really put her over the edge, though and she would really start getting nasty and my H might up and leave me for this, too, I believe. He is still that into her.
