Well, ok, whether I'm doing them for myself or for H, I guess at first it was obviously for H, but actually it's for both of us b/c it's for our M!! I can truly look at myself and our M and see why/how, etc. H was unhappy. Not that that in any way excuses that he decided to have A's, but, yes, I have looked very closely at my downfalls & mistakes I have made in the M and am and have been correcting those things and S is just one of the issues.

That's what I meant about consistency. I think at first he was saying "yeah, right, heard it before," but he has seen my consistency and has finally decided to trust me again and take everything at face value. At least I hope that is what he is doing.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10