Nicola,

Thanks for sharing. As someone who has been sep. for almost 2 years and still has reg friendly contact with my H, I feel the dating thing.

Only you can know if you are ready. As for the married thing, that is just very personal and I think as we have learned in our sitchs it goes so beyond right or wrong. It has to come from the heart , imho, not just from "shoulds" or "should nots".

Could you still cancel and maybe sign up further along the road? Maybe you could try some other events that require less of an emotional and personal committment for now.

Just some ideas...
brava


Me: 36
He: 34
no kids
Married: 2000
He left: July 05