Those are VERY good points you make. I guess I didn't realize how much communication tends to wane in all SSM's (i.e. mine wasn't unusual).
And you are right that there is a lot of really negative non-verbal communication that happens in my M. I have pointed out that my W will never physically comfort me for example when I am sad or injured.
Of course my thoughts also tend to drift toward what negative non-verbal communication am I giving off. I know I have a horrible poker face, wear my heart on my sleeve, I'm sure my unhappiness oozes out often. Are you the same way?
Chrome
"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"