(((Shades))) Sorry your H is frustrating you to bits, and that he may be screwing you on the move. I hope he won't do that. I know it must be so hard when you try so hard and he blows you off. Take care of yourself so that it's easier to handle his negativity when he doles it out to you.
I hope you have alot of fun at Disney World. I haven't been yet (only been to the Anaheim one). I like how you're surprising the kids with it. What a great and cool mom you are! Love, PH