I'm happy for you Xue--well, not that you're sick of course, but that things with W are good and that you are such good friends. It's sweet and I am a bit envious (although I am enjoying my single life sometimes).
See how she likes to take care of you when you are sick? When you are more helpless and needy she swoops in and responds. How can you translate this helpless kitten thing into the bedroom? You are afterall a born again virgin so why not play that to the hilt. Let her teach you some things you innocent little kitten you!!!!