do you have an attorney that will be helping you with the child support order? Have the atty to ask the judge to consider the fact that husband refuses to look for employment that is equal to his earning potential simply for the child support
list his previous job history & what his pay scale was for those jobs to help you in that presentation & also show what the job market is currently for a man with his work history, education etc Should be making & the clincher will be to clip all of the help wanted ads from the sunday that he should be applying for rather than simply trying to work where he got fired from the job for screwing around with his co-worker the reality is that he's most likely going to get fired again from that company since she's still there & lovers working together usually doesn't last since the OW is made more aware of all contact & time that he's spending with the Real Covenant family makes the OW even more upset & insecure & creates problems for the job
This may work for you - I didn't have an atty & it worked for me in the CT courts back when I was a single parent my NavySon's bio-father intentionally worked under the table for the majority of his pay & was on the books for only min wage (back then min wage in CT was $3ish so that he'd not have to pay child support but when i brought up to the judge's attention that Butch had made that choice in order to not pay child support the judge looked at Butch's education & previous job experience with the earnings that went along with those jobs & the judge told Butch that since Butch had a higher earning potential & I had brought in the help wanted pages showing that in his feild there were jobs that paid much more available at that moment that Butch had to pay more than the state minimum & that the order could not be decreased in the future
{{{HUGS}}} I know that this is a very hard time for you been there in the past so I can fully relate hope that my experience will give you some option & will pray that the judge will be a reasonable man or woman who'll see what your husband is trying to do & will make the order accordingly
