I get it and agree with it...I really do!! I need to seperate the feelings that he hurts me when he doesn't take pride in his children... It hurts that financially he does not care if every cent I have is going to pay bills...when this is over I will be broke...no savings living paycheck to paycheck!
He can not be relied upon to help with the kids...Understand I have tried...invite him to everything and tell him about stuff with the girls...when they get older they will form their own opinions but I just feel like kids need a full time dad and he needs to act like one.
I know I can't make him...H wants to D me because of MLC/OW...literally walked out with no explanation...blindsided me!!
Can't stop him but why does he have to D the kids too???
