So tell me how to react when he tells me about the job?? This is going to mean a change in when he sees the kids and a HUGE change in pay....just in time to go to court to establish child support!!
Overall, I am hurt because he is bringing my life down with his!! I do not want this to come across when we talk...
H is involved in so many ^$& activities he doesn't have time to see the kids as it is!! Baseball with SS's and hockey and golf come WAY before the girls....
Please look at the quote in Red.....Do you see anything in those word you just wrote. As a male, I am a very active role in my kids life and do not understand when anyone who gets divorced takes anything but their kids well being as their number one priority.
But if you look at what is highlighted in RED...what do you see....Read that line over to yourself for about 100 times.....it will come to you....
You are the only person who can make yourself a victim.....How are his actions bringing your life down.....His actions are ruining his life not yours.... REALIZE THAT FIRST AND FOREMOST..... You cannot let his actions bring your life down...if you think about it does it even make any sense.....
My ex was a mess when when we got Divorced I was there for the kids..... kind of felt the same way, until I realized who are they always going to depend on in life, who will they never trust.... I could have went for full custody, but I didn't kids need the other parent, but it is not your responsibility to make them take and active part of their life....
WE REAP WHAT WE SOW.....It will come back and haunt him....trust me on that...
