My H was willing to divorce me before his EA even turned to a PA!!!! He just "felt soooo connected" gag me!! H says stuff now like: "yeah, that's another thing that bothered me about her" and he said this regarding several impt things. They were fundamentally diff people yet willing to throw everything away based on these emotional high they got off each other. If my H was already having issues about her what would it be like in 16 yrs (we have been married 16 yrs) - they would not have made it two yrs let alone 16 yrs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is why patience is key - need to outwait the OW yet at what cost to our own wants/needs????? When do WE come first!
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
