If all I had changed was all of a sudden having more S w/ H, I don't think he would have changed his mind as far as the D goes. But I have made other changes as well in addition to being more intimate and ML more often.

Also, not only have I made positive changes in our R and myself, but one thing that has made a difference is that I have been CONSISTENT with these changes. I have shown H that I am in the M for keeps and mean to put effort into our R along with keeping the house up, taking care of the boys, etc.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10