I think we all need to take sufficient time to mourn what we have lost. My divorce was finalized in Sept. and not only am I not ready to date...I don't even want to ...it takes a long time for your heart to heal and I have 2 boys who need to understand that love doesn't disappear. LSS is unique in the fact that he is a nutjob...for real. But, the fact rremains that I loved the person he pretended to be and love isn't something gotten over in 6 months!!!!
I chose to stand for myself and my children and that means being the best person I can be. I need to concentrate on making myself whole...helping my children be whole.
I can't do this if I am working on a relationship with anothr person.
