You missed the point. What I am pointing out is the fact that accomodaton IS NECESSARY. LD woman wants little sex and will not accomodate. HD man wants much more sex and will not accomodate. If neither can accomodate, then either he has to cheat or divorce. If he accepts far less sex, HE IS CHANGING TO ACCOMODATE, which runner says should not happen.
I agree with everything you say to do GEL. But almost every course of action they can take, REQUIRES CHANGING TO ACCOMODATE THE OTHER SPOUSE. Marriage is nothing BUT changing to accomodate another person (that is why marriage is so freaking hard).
