So I am still wondering about the other thing in my post. I felt good about it but was it the right thing to do? I feel that I dont ask him where he is going or what he is doing, and although I love that he wants to know, I feel that right now its none of his business. But now I am scared that he wont ask again LOL. Anyway, its Friday the 13th and I live in Port Dover Canada and its a big thing around here. Tons of bikers come and its really an awesome sight to see. I hope to hear from someone soon. Thanks Grace and Going Solo for all your advice and opinions. I big thanks to all the other people who have helped me on this thread. I love that I can come here and get great advice from people who know what I am going through. Have a good day all. Heather