Honey, you got a good head on your shoulders and you are standing your ground like no one's business. I say GOOD FOR YOU Aud, if he is trying to sweet talk you into turning a blind eye, then you did the smartest thing by staying away and not buying any bs.
There is acceptance of who someone is, and there is condoning bs, he wants both, glad you see this.
Hugs friend, I hope he chooses to be truthful and be a good H.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.