Ok, I am not in the sitch, and don't know exactly what I would do, but do you think you should do something drastic such as tell him he needs to either break it off or get out? There is just so much of the crap that you can take. I know that you need to get to the point where you are "done," but he just seems to be doing whatever he wants and not knowing what the reprocussions are going to be.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10