Calling movers is good....I really wish you had done that before you had this week of "no-no's"....it will take H some time to miss you now....be aware of that and be prepared...you see the questions and the asking for hugs and the following him around the office and out the truck....those things WILL linger in his mind for quite awhile...and for awhile he will be relieved you won't be at the office...
The good side to this is it will give him some place to go that is neutral to both you and OW...he will have HIS space....in time he will think...and IF you give him the space, detach...this will allow him to see more clearly
During this time...and I am only going to say this once because I refuse to enable your behaviors....YOU NEED TO FOCUS AND WORK ON YOU ONLY!!!!...period...it is VITAL and CRITICAL to YOUR success...I am not talking about your R/M...but YOU
I hope you can do this...I hope you don't repeat history again...you have been given a chance that honestly I was beginning to question with all that you had done this week to sabotage yourself...so don't blow this one...
