suit Thanks for chiming in, your post hit on a lot of issues that I was discussing with a friend last night.
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For my 2cents, you got her.
I don't really understand how I can have her if she is withdrawing, but one of my good friends made the point that he thinks she said those things in the heat of the moment and doesn't really mean them. He and just like everyone else keeps telling I need to stop analizeing every word. Live in the now and stop projecting into the future.
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You have to ask yourself and to clearly understand why you want this woman?
Good question. I think a lot of it is ego driven, she dumped me and now I want to claim what was mine. I also believe I am addicted the sex with her, it is something I haven't been able to get close to with anyone else. I still look at her like the person I feel in love with 17 years ago. The was a lot hell in the past 4 year she put me through, all the harsh words and vindictive actions really crushed my self esteem. When she was like this I wanted no part of her, but now I see the old W and we have a lot of fun and relate real well to each other.
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You may think that the issues can be overcome but does your MLCer? Without her agreement and action, it ain't gonna happen.
She did make a comment during the speech, that we could work through our issues if both us wanted to work on it. I do beleive that are some anger issue she will never get over. No, I do not want to live on eggsheels if we got back together, but until we do R, I can't make the determination.
Suit, what did you do when S gave you the speech that ultimately made them decide to come back?
Your post was exactly what I needed to read this morning.
