I also recommend "After the Affair" - excellent book as it reflects on a lot of the childhood issues that manifest into the A's years later
Another good one is called the "Monogamy Myth" - which deals not only with the A itself, but also society's view on A's and how they tend to actually encourage them but when they happen, society is not there to help us through it
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)