You go girl. In the world of healing and growing - scary is good.

I know it feels weird, and counter-intuitive, that taking yourself away from him will draw you to him - but think about it the other way. You were just going along giving him a little bit of attention every now and then until you knew he was moving away from you. Then he's in your head 110% of the time.

It will be the same for him. While you are 'there' all the time, he doesn't have to put you in his head - but as you move away from him, he will have to fill that head space up with you himself. He will. You'll see.

Stop thinking about OW. Don't give her any power over you. If you must think of her, imagine her to be a golf club or a fishing boat - she's just something that gives him another place to be. Get her out of your head.

V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.