Well H took the kids tonight. I made sure he was coming after work as I had plans to go out for dinner and shopping with a friend. I made sure that I was ready to go and looking spiffy by the time he got here. Just as I anticipated, he asked where I was going. I told him "out", he said "out?" I said yup. I felt sooo good after that. I also told him today that we need to have a set schedule for him to take the kids. I told him I would like him to take them on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday. He said we shoudl be more flexible about the weekends in case one of us has plans. Well my thoughts on that are if one if us has plans then its up to us to find a sitter. He doesnt know this, I just told him that we would discuss weekends later. Is that fair? I dont really like him taking the kids to the place where he is staying so it a big step for me to even offer him a schedule. Heather
