Thanks for the responses Heywyre, I should say she is back at work now. She started back a couple weeks before she moved out, but nothing too much, maybe 5 days total. We live in a large city, so its hard for me to 'bump into her', otherwise I would. I was thinking about two ways to reach out to her if she doesn't respond to my email in a week. 1. Send her some flowers (not roses or anything romantic), with a card saying something like, 'I'm sorry I wasn't there for you when you needed me the most, I'm here now.' 2. Order her some groceries online and have them delivered to her apartment, since I know money for her now is tight. But I also don't want to come across as controlling. I just feel so hopeless now, I wish I could help her.
