Quite frankly, I think she has a MUCH bigger problem with the cutting than anything to do with perimenopause and her hormones - cutting is a sure sign of some very deep emotionally and/or psychological problems. It is a cry for help (just like attempted suicide is)

Personally, if it were me, I would make an appointment to talk to your GP about it and see if they can recommend someone for you to talk to. Express your concerns about your W - of course DON'T tell your W you are doing this but I think I would be genuinely concerned at this point. I think there is a way more serious issue going on other than a EA/PA


Heywyre

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1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)