I do not agree that you should have to wait 5 years. It should be up to the person and if they felt ready. In my case I would be waiting at least 6 months to date.
I guess I am making a decision to not fight a divorce based on a slim chance that H will want a R with me again. If I want to date after I am divorced, I feel that I should be able to do so if I feel ready. I really don't know if I ever will marry again until after the kids are out of the house.
I do appreciate everyone's viewpoints, even if they are not what I want to hear. I'm sorry if I have been confusing.
Me45 H45 D13 S10 together-23 years married-21 years MLC Divorced 10/3/07 Married to a wonderful new man.
