I am sorry. Maybe I don't understand what is meant by the term "standing". I thought it meant that you delay the divorce as long as possible to give your spouse time to get through the MLC. I apologize if my ignorance of the term has inflamed this.
Some people do take the stance to block divorce. I have read scripture that if one wants out of a marriage, not to stop the individual. If my W wants a divorce, I will not stop her. I would ask her if that is what she really wants but will not look for ways to delay her. I will continue "standing" even if she D me with the expectation that she will make it through her MLC. My R with my W over 21 years gives me the belief that she will make it through but I have no guarantees.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
