Thank you for your great reply. So sad to be sort of wasting the days.
Anyway, when you say, take care of YOU, can you give me some examples?
I exercise, play golf with my friends, enjoy my wine, go anywhere I want to go when I want to go. So, I have total freedom, yet paying all the bills with many important unmet needs. I think I sit because of the huge financial downside of a divorce. She just keeps saying, this is the way she is going to be. I need something to rock her world and get her motivated towards healing our relationship, but so far, nothing has worked. Sigh. All insights would be appreciated. Thx, just me.
