My goodness...Butterfly...had many similarities in my talk with my H today....as you said, it was said in an "I'm sorry" state....I too wasn't angry at H just so hurt and disappointed ...
I can't believe your H called to ask you that........I wish for the day mine might bring himself to do that !!!!! I LONG for that day.....yet please be careful....this is so hard on everyone....try not to expect anything ok .........try...
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
