I realized the subject of my post might sound pretty pathetic, and now it's too late to change it - I know there are people for whom the OP might be a former friend or even relative, so their situation would indeed be worse.
I just meant that I have to see her car parked at OM's place whenever I leave my house.
My own nephew spent the last year or two with the mother of his child being involved with one of his former good friends. He endured all that and it looks like they are getting back togehter (now if only they'd get properly married!).
