Is it over for me?

[Yoyowife]

Hi all,
I'm having one of those blah days. Nothing much going on. I haven't seen or spoken to H since Sunday. I continue to detach. My D15 and I are staying busy. She even drove on the interststate yesterday to the mall, ah the joys of teaching a teenager to drive! I just feel this should be his job, he is missing out on so much. She did call him when we got home and told him. She also asked him when he was going to come and uncover our pool. I'm glad that she is staying in touch with him and that I don't have to ask him to do these things. It doesn't sound as needy when she does it.
My H just confuses me so much. The charity group I belong to which raises money for our children's hospital is throwing a benefit fishing tournament. It will be Memorial Day weekend. When I found out about it about a month ago H said he didn't want to fish it, but would be glad to help out with it. Well, Sunday, he took a sponsorship form saying he would be a sponsor and probably find some other business owners who would do the same. We are also selling raffle tickets for a boat, he took all of those and said he would see those for me as well. My point is, why if the marriage is over is he willing to do this? He doesn't have to.