My marriage feels hopeless

[Heartbroken]

You have got to slow down - you are not going to see changes overnight!!! My motto is BABY STEPS!!!

We need to take each positive as they come! This is the hardest part of DBing - patience patience patience!!! Even when my H decided he wanted to work on us - I still had to be patient!!!

DBing isn't just a temporary change to get them back - it should be a new way of living to help get on track and keep us on track!!