I'm really sorry to hear about this. I think it really is time to think of YOU and what's best for YOU. As Lis said, you are D. You've been out there meeting other women; is your XW still the best one for you? If so, then I'd say back off a bit, but still be around as a family sometimes. I think going out w/ her alone might be too painful.
If you don't think she's the best one, then maybe go back to minimal contact.
JMHO of course--I really don't know what I'm talking about, lol!
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