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I am hopeful...whereas before I just felt sad and depressed and lonely.


Right there with you.

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It probably is unwise since we are of the opposite sex..and the EA is starting I feel. I look forward to seeing the person and talking with them.


Feeling friendship toward someone is not necessarily an EA. It can easily develop into one if you are not careful.

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I feel ashamed at the fact that I post that I am trying to work on my marriage...yet I still find myself Physically attracted to other people.


Why are you ashamed? Your feelings are your feelings. It is how you act on them that is important. If you find that you are strongly physically attracted to this potential OM and that it will be a problem to control, tell him you need space.

Whatever you do, don't start down the road of rationalizing. Always take a critical look at what you are doing.

Chrome


"Recollect me darlin, raise me to your lips, two undernourished egos, four rotating hips"

Inertia Creeps by Massive Attack