He sounds like he is enjoying himself. I do not think that he thinks OW is worth it quite frankly.
Look at the statistics most men do not leave their wife for the OW.
OW probably has asked him to move in with her. He won't do it because then he is letting her be in control. Is he the "no woman will control me" type?
He seems like it.
My own H is the "no one will control me" type. I have learned though that through careful calculations and comments I can get him to do things I want, I just have to make sure he BELIEVES it is all his idea.
I posted on another thread where my husband has been fussing about wanting to move out. Ofcourse I told him I did not want him to at the time. He did stayed. Then Monday we got into it. I should have left his drunk *ss alone but I pushed. Anyway I was told, he is tired of me, does not really like me, did not want to be married to me, and I wont let him move out. I told him fine move out if you want to so bad.
He is still at home very comfortable.
I also battle with how to do things with him in the house as well. I really do not want him to leave. I was reading a thread where they listed things from a Christian site on how to cope with a difficult spouse. It listed that having them move out is very bad. I am not a religious person, but I have a very very strong belief in God and I believe that God has a plan for us to be together. My H believed this also. In the past he said he wanted a break but not a divorce. So who knows where his mind is now.
I think your H is like mine in many ways, If they were really really through with us they would be gone because they are head strong. The fact they have not left, is because they are not through.
